Do you think you totally control of your relationship with your
girlfriend or wife? Think again. Women control their relationships in
very subtle ways. In fact, most of the time men don’t have a clue that
their wives is controlling them. Men think they are the bosses but
actually they are being manipulated. Here are some very delicate ways in
which women control relationships. Check them out to know if you are
being controlled.
1. You are the boss: The best way to control any
situation is by distraction. And women distract you from the real
problem by making you feel like the boss. Whenever she says, ‘Its
totally up to you’ you should know you are being manipulated.
2. Setting examples: Whenever your wife or
girlfriend states an example of another couple, you should know that she
trying to give you a message. If so-an-so brought his wife a diamond
ring on her birthday, you are being expected to follow suit.
3. Home Minister: Most women become control freaks
when it comes to running their homes. You won’t even know when she
pushes you out of the kitchen! So if you want your share the household
decisions, put your foot down now.
4. Damsel in distress: Behaving like a ‘poor little
thing’ is one of the most powerful weapons of a woman. She is at once
the independent modern woman and when she needs a job done, she can turn
into a totally hassled damsel in distress waiting for her Knight in
shinning armour to rescue her.
5. Fear the tears: It is stereotype that women cry
to have their way but many stereotypes are actually based on truth. A
woman’s tears do have profound impact on a man. Women know that crying
always works and it is a passive aggressive way out of any problem. In
this way women can control relationships without being the aggressor.
6. Unsaid Threats: Women are very good at
threatening men without using any overtly challenging words. If she
wants to get married and you have not popped the question yet, she will
subtly let you know that she has other proposals waiting, so you better
hurry up!
7. Pampering or buttering?: Women are generally more
observant then men. She knows exactly what you like and what you don’t.
Your wife can control you by pampering you with the right things. She
will ask you what you want for your birthday and in that way make sure
that you return the gesture of goodwill. In this way women get exactly
what they want from their men. Not all women are control freaks. It is
just that men and women control their relationships in different ways.
There is no harm in getting controlled once in a while for the sake of
love.
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